Who Debuts Historically, debutante balls were formal affairs, reserved for the daughters of the monied elite and aristocrats, who were presented to society at a marriageable age. But the 18-year-olds -- and some post-college debutantes in their early 20s -- presented to society at today's events aren't looking for husbands, even if they are celebrating a tradition of exclusivity and privilege. Debutantes still often tend to be from very wealthy families, but those families might include old money and royalty, along with titans of industry and hedge fund managers. The young women are introduced to a social world in which they will pursue careers, contribute to philanthropic initiatives, move comfortably and confidently -- and marry and raise the next generation of debutantes. A debut is just an event, not the event of a lifetime, for these girls. Advance Work A debut is far from a lark, although the work leading up to the event is designed to be pleasant and empowering. Many of the most prestigious balls are invitation-only, but getting on the list could mean being the daughter of a celebrity or a relative of the queen.